Ask yourself:

What makes you happy?
What makes you happy at work?
What makes you happy at home?
What about friends and family make you happy?
Are you most often happy by yourself, or lonely?
What makes you happy when you're by yourself?
What do you love to do?
What would you do with your life today if you weren't afraid of failure?
What's working in your life?
What's not working in your life?
What are you currently doing that prevents you from being in joy?
What's working in your life?
Who's not working in your life?
What story do you tell yourself as to why they are there?
Can you fix the relationships, or should you let them go?
What relationships are working in your life?
What makes the difference?
What would have to happen so that in one years time your life would have more joy?
What question should you be asking yourself that would make a difference in your life?
What's the single most important thing you can take away from this line of questioning?

Ron's Answers on 4/14/07 What makes you happy? People, pets, crossing things off of my to-do list. What makes you happy at work? Moving the energy and really seeing the patterns. What makes you happy at home? The views, Ro and Ebbie, watching Judge Judy, crossing things off of my to-do list. What about friends and family make you happy? Playing together, building, growing, hanging out. Are you most often happy by yourself, or lonely? Mostly happy, sometimes I start to miss connection. What makes you happy when you're by yourself? Organizing things, learning stuff on the computer. What do you love to do? Projects, and cross stuff off my to-do list.

What would you do with your life today if you weren't afraid of failure? Lecture groups. 
What's working in your life? Keeping busy.
What's not working in your life? Keeping too busy :) !

What are you currently doing that prevents you from being in joy? Worry, about my to-do list. Who's not working in your life? These days, no one. What story do you tell yourself as to why they are there? There not there because I changed. Can you fix the relationships, or should you let them go? It depends on who we're talking about. What relationships are working in your life? My marriage, my friendships, pretty much all of them. What makes the difference? Me showing up. Me having boundaries. Me being happy. What would have to happen so that in one years time your life would have more joy? Shorter to-do list.

What question should you be asking yourself that would make a difference in your life? Why would I want to lecture?
What's the single most important thing you can take away from this line of questioning? Add lecturing to my to-do list?